NOTICE: This review is my own opinion of the Language of Attraction program after purchasing and going through it myself. It contains affiliate links.
HAVE YOU EVER run out of things to say?
And then things get awkward and you decide to check out of the conversation your in
Afterwards you scratch your head and ask yourself why?
It’s one of a mans greatest concerns… to run out of things to say. Then we eject ourselves because we feel like were not good enough, or we feel shame at some point.
But guys that are good with women don’t feel this. And they don’t fall into this trap
The truth is that not knowing what to say, not just not having anything to say, will kill your chances with women. Because she will run the conversation if you don’t and she wont talk herself into being attracted to you.
So how do you solve the problem?
Matt Artisan has a lot of ideas on not only what to say, but how to make what you do say, the best so she will be attracted to you and want to see more of you in his Language of Attraction program.
What is the Language of Attraction Program (LOA) in one sentence
LOA is a program that is aimed at increasing your conversation skills, that teaches how to use conversation to build a connection and attraction with a woman as well as generally being more of a likable person.
LOA in more detail
This training isn’t about being a player, or notching your belt, it’s about meeting great women and having a great time with them. Making them feel great and giving them what they want.
I think that this suits guys who are looking to meet miss right because you do need to meet women to meet miss right. And this program shows you how to do that (and gives you the confidence to do it)
As far as how is the program delivered goes, LOA is pretty much Matt talking over a PowerPoint. The audios are the audio recording of the video. The cheat sheets are the main points or examples in a PDF form.
The sections are long and are about an hour each (sometimes more) so there is plenty of content.
And the content is quite good. The examples and conversations starters are good. So are the games he gives you to play.
During the program, Matt does talk a lot about you going out and practicing. So you probably should have some experience beforehand. Or be able to go out and do it. Which can be a bit of a big deal for some guys.
There isn’t much in the program about where to practice or how to practice. So if you are at the stage that you cannot meet women yet then this program might be one to visit in future.
What you get…
- The Language of Attraction Program (Video and Audio, with presentation PDF’s)
- Cheat sheets
- Jared Lawrence On Talking To Girls At Bars & Clubs
- Josiah Prise On Relating & Never Running Out Of Things To Say
- Sexualizing The Conversation
Who is Matt Artisan?
Matt Artisan is a dating coach. He has a plethora of experience and has taught many guys techniques on how to meet and talk to women.
In this program is relatable and his experience really shines through in the way he talks.
In the Language of Attraction, he comes across as a guy who likes to talk and is happy to share.
If your wondering what Matt’s ‘style’ is, he is a ‘meet girls during the day, direct approaching and even hopeless romantic’ type of guy.
Some guys might be put off by this, but you are better knowing now than later. This ‘style’ works for some guys, but not all.
The cheat sheets
They are a quick way to remind yourself what you should be doing. With examples
They are great before you walk out the door, or print them and take them with you when you have a minute to brush up. Or just hold them out in front of a girl if you have the balls for it.
Plenty of examples and stories
I like the fact that Matt introduces concepts as stories, typically things that have happened to him.
Really Good insights
Matt has a real passion for trying to help men gain confidence and help them with women and you can tell the way that he talks.
He does talk with stories and examples, he also does give plenty of his stuff away in this.
Some of the things in the program are kind of common sense. But i guess it depends on your experience.
Advice can be a little confusing for beginners
Sometimes it can be a little confusing. Especially where advice is given that isn’t concrete. I.e. it isn’t the same all the time. There are exceptions which may confuse.
I also felt like at stages, there hasn’t been as much preparation as their could have been. Ideas and concepts aren’t fully conceptualized in the program. That they could have been made simpler or easier to follow. When things aren’t concrete i think that it does make it more confusing, especially for beginners without much previous knowledge.
A little spiritual / self-helpy at times
At times in the program, Matt talks about self help concepts (affirmations, morning routines, etc.). This isn’t everyone’s cup of tea. It’s not a huge part of the program, but it is there.
Some things are a little tough to ‘take action’ on
Like being ‘in the moment’ it’s hard to ‘use’ that. It’s also hard to know if you are doing it. And it’s hard to follow if you are new to going out and meeting women. Because you do need to think about what your going to say etc.
So it can be a little confusing if your thinking ‘what should i focus on’
Some of the exercises you need more than one person, which might be hard for some. They aren’t the kind of thing that you’d do with a girl that you met either.
Jared Lawrence on talking to girls at bars & clubs
Jared reveals the real difference between day and night game and the biggest impacts that the two have on meeting and talking to women.
You will learn:
- The 5 states that she needs to feel to be attracted to you
- An easy way to start flirting (that might even get you a free drink)
- What flirting is and what it is not
- The vibe that you need to avoid giving off to girls at night
- What to do when you try to advance too quickly to save your interaction
Josiah Prise on relating & never running out of things to say
Josiah talks about how to keep the conversation going through dissecting the different parts and elements of communication.
You will learn:
- The 3 pronged system to use to always have something to say
- The types of questions to use to get her to start being emotional
- The easiest way to make the standard ‘job interview type’ questions, fun
- The question you can ask a girl in basically any situation to get her to think about times she felt great
- What you have to do (that most guys don’t) to raise your success rate when meeting girls during the day
Sexualizing the conversation
Matt Artisan talks about how to move things forward quickly in a conversation, and get her to think about you more as a love interest than a friend
You will learn:
- What not to do when you are talking about sexual things
- How to get her permission to ask any sexual question you want
- What NOT to do when she starts getting sexual in the conversation
- What you can say at any time to bring up sexual topics
- How to demonstrate your sexual expertise right in front of her (in a way that’s safe to do around others)
My opinion on LOA:
Overall I like this program. I think that it is an honest, and straightforward way for guys to get some cannon fodder for meeting women and talking.
The Techniques are relatively simple to follow, and won’t take long to get right when your mid conversation with that beautiful brunette.
Matt is a guy who meets women during the day, so if your looking for fun party stuff then this may not be the program for you, however, if you are trying to dodge the party scene and you want to have something to say to the woman waiting at the lights, or walking by the shops, at the library, supermarket etc. then this program contains great information. And i would recommend it for you.