LEARNING ABOUT WOMEN ISN’T LIKE learning about other subjects
- You can’t really ask her what she wants (she doesn’t know)
- It’s hard to find other guys who will actually help you
- And your friends probably don’t know what to do either
It can feel like you are either born with it or you aren’t
But rest assured there is help for the rest of us. Here are 10 books, videos, and other resources, to help you really understand what’s going on with her…
And how to make her happy, and loyal. Go through these and you will be the man that she will always remember, and never want to leave
1. She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman – Ian Kerner
Are you “Ill-Clit-erate?”
If you are like most guys you may have far more idea of what hides under the hood of your car or the box on your computer than what goes on under the hood of the female clitoris.
Ian explains that for a woman, sex is more than foreplay and intercourse; it’s a complete package from start to climax.
She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of how to pleasure a woman, covering dozens of techniques that have been proven to work time and time again. Learning how to pleasure a woman can turn you into the man that she can’t stop thinking about.
Get your copy of She Comes First here
|Contains detailed instructions||Poorly organized|
|Covers the art and science behind sex||Repetitive|
|Shows you how to succeed without toys||Deals mainly with oral sex|
2. The Way of the Superior Man – David Deida
How to become a man’s man and more
In “The Way of the Superior Man,” author David Deida takes an in-depth look at every aspect of men’s lives.
He covers issues such as career and family, love and spirituality, and women and love. Deida offers advice designed to help men learn how to live a more masculine life. One of authenticity, integrity, and freedom.
The chapters are short and to the point, making the book easy to read. Providing you read the entire book and apply the lessons, you will find yourself becoming a far more confident man who is ready to take charge of his life.
I have this book in my bookshelf, you can get your copy here
|Chapters are short and to the point||Ideas are somewhat archaic|
|Helpful for those looking to build a long-term relationship||Repetitive and excessive use of filler|
|Shows men how to focus on their relationship and to take more responsibility for it||Overly simplistic writing style|
3. Various DVD’s – Welcomed Consensus
Sex Ed. for visual learners
I know I said books but these DVD’s deserve their place in this list.
I first found Welcomed Consensus a few years ago. And when it comes to teaching sex and the woman’s body, I don’t think anyone does it with as much detail
Personally, I found it valuable because when you are ‘in the moment’ you may only have a small window to get it right. Whereas these DVD’s slow things down and show exactly what you should be doing, for how long, when to stop, etc.
Some may see it as porn, but I would classify it more as ‘instruction manual DVD’
|Extreemly detailed||Very graphic (not for everyone)|
|Simple to understand||The production level isn’t great|
|Answers a lot of questions||Videos are shortish (30mins)|
Lawrence has written the upgrade most guys are looking for when it comes to getting more and better sex.
The book/program is set around the idea that the physical attraction isn’t everything. In fact, it is only a single part of the experience for a woman, and women get turned on more by the ‘story’ or lead up than by the act.
On the more practical side, there are plenty of techniques which make things easy to remember. It’s a great resource for men, single or partnered.
Get your copy of The Language of Lust here
|Plenty of techniques||No hard copy available, only digital|
|Easy to understand||A little dated|
|60-day money back guarantee||Membership site hard to navigate|
5. My Secret Garden – Nancy Friday
More than erotica, a real-life view of women’s sexual fantasies
Some see My Secret Garden as one of the most sexually freeing books written, while others see it as no more than pornography
My Secret Garden is in fact “a collection of women’s sexual fantasies,” which due to the nature of the topic is certain to be at least somewhat erotic
Although it’s a little dated, it’s rare that you will find women openly sharing their innermost thoughts, so there are new insights for men here. And I really like how straightforward and honest it has been compiled
|Entertaining read||No real practical element|
|Great insights into women||Very graphic language|
|Informative||Gets a bit weird in parts|
6. Sex, Your Woman and You – Don Asterwood
Don Asterwood has put together a real guide on how the average guy can please a woman
And his answer lies in three areas. Having confidence, the correct knowledge and applying the right technique
Much of what we learn from friends and movies is not really correct and doesn’t work as intended. This book aims to dispell those myths and show you what works.
It’s written in a language that’s easy to read and upfront about the advice in it. Get your copy of Sex, Your Woman and You here
|Easy to read||Very specific about sexual knowledge|
|Frank everyday language||This author may not be for everyone|
|Plenty of content in the book||Not for advanced ‘users’|
7. 500 Lovemaking tips – Michael Webb
Is the sizzle between you and your woman starting to fade?
If you have been looking for ways to spice up your love life, 500 Lovemaking Tips is sure to help.
Filled with 500 tips & strategies that are easy to put into action, with step-by-step instructions to help ensure you understand each tip. The descriptions are well thought out and easy to follow, with as much detail as is needed to ensure you comprehend the entire concept.
Keeping the spark alight in your relationship can be challenging, especially if you have been together for a long time. By following these tips, you can rekindle the flame and turn it into a towering inferno.
Get your copy of 500 Lovemaking Tips by Michael Webb here
|Based on real-life experiences||Takes a lot of reading|
|Easy to understand||Only available as an eBook|
|Guaranteed results (money back)||Can be overwhelming|
8. Revolutionary Sex – Alex Allman
Three Ways to Give a Woman the Best Orgasms She Has Ever Had
This is an excellent guide to sex for beginners to help them learn what it takes to truly satisfy a woman in bed.
You will learn how to overcome issues that stop a woman from having an orgasm and men from gaining an erection. Revolutionary Sex teaches you about the female anatomy and how to locate the “G-Spot.”
Learn about “sexual trust” and the importance for a woman to be unable to tell her partner about her sexual needs. Revolutionary Sex explains the importance of oral sex and how to perform it on both men and women.
|Focus is on most important parts of sex||Not exactly revolutionary information|
|Comes with male and female audio version||Distinct lack of diagrams|
|Detailed instructions||Text can be challenging to read|
9. 100 Great sex games for couples – Michael Webb
More fun in the bedroom
100 Great Sex Games for Couples offers more than just 100 games for you and your partner to inject into your sex life.
There are plenty of books that do just that and nothing more. Author Michael scoured the world to find the best sex games, added a few of his own and unleashed it on an unsuspecting public.
The games in this book are refreshingly new, are not complicated or difficult to prepare for, and are neither degrading nor immoral. Treat your partner to some of the hottest sex they have ever experienced and leave them wondering who the new you is.
When your ready to play, your copy of 100 Great Sex Games for Couples is here
|Available as a PDF download||Only available online|
|Easy to understand||Contains 33 games and 67 variants|
|60-day money back guarantee||Requires a lot of creativity and imagination|
10. Turn Your Wife into Your Own Personal Sex Kitten – Michael Fiore
Text Your Wife into Bed will show you how to have your special lady seeing you as her personal love god all through the power of the simple text message.
Author Michael Fiore teaches you a variety of different ways you can text your wife that will turn them on and make them want you.
Success is achieved by following the four-step process in the book. The process is laid out in easy to understand language. Once you purchase the program, you get an audio file, a video, and the PDF to download. Get yours here
|Easy to follow and understand||Success takes time and patience|
|Proven track record of success||Use of “dirty” language|
|60-day money-back guarantee||Only works for those who like texting|
If you read, listened to and watched everything here, I cannot see you having a problem with pleasing women in your future
The truth is that pleasing women doesn’t start in the bedroom. It’s the type of man you are and how you treat your woman. I think as a whole, these books and resources reflect that
Now go and study and make that woman feel the way she deserves
If you are looking for resources on how to meet women then these books are more for you
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