THE SUREST WAY to take your girl to heaven and back is through her erogenous zones.
Erogenous zones are areas of the body that have heightened sensitivity. When you stimulate these areas, you create all the incredible feelings: relaxation, thoughts of sexual fantasies, sexual arousal and orgasm.
A good mastery of your girl’s erogenous zones will help you take her from zero to gotta-have-it- right now every single time. Unfortunately, even your girl herself may not know the location of all her erogenous zones.
The female body is a huge source of immense pleasure; it is a massive bundle of nerves that you can use to send your girl over the edge of deep electrifying desire. The chances are that she has never even thought to explore some of the hot spots in her body.
A good understanding of the female erogenous zones will help you not only discover her amazing hot spots, but also introduce her to hotter ones she didn’t know she had. Here are the top erogenous zones to turn her on and get you a standing ovation.
The neck is the most sensitive area to light sensations, and one of the sexiest areas to touch, kiss and lick. This is because the skin on the neck is extremely thin, and it, therefore, does not take much to make a woman feel good. Even breathing gently on the nape of her neck will send incredible sensations down her spine. Every feeling on your girl’s neck is greatly magnified. Run the tip of your fingers lightly up and down her neck and watch her squirm.
The beauty of this erogenous zone is that she doesn’t even have to be undressed for you to access it. It is, therefore, a great erogenous zone to start stimulating even before your girl is aroused.
At the nape of the neck, there is a whole boatload of nerves that long to be touched. Remember the nape is the base of the brain where a lot of nerves come together: a sure ticket to arousal.
The inner thighs
The skin on your girl’s inner thighs is super sensitive and packed with nerve endings. This area is therefore extra sensitive to your nips, licks, kisses, and nibbles. If you want to kick it up a notch, trace an ice cube up and down her inner thighs, and she will have an indescribable sensation. The inner thigh makes an excellent field for foreplay.
Not only are the feet packed with nerve endings, but they contain pleasure points that trigger arousal. No wonder the feet have been used for centuries to stimulate organs through reflexology.
According to sex therapists, the inside and outside of the ankles are especially sensitive spots with numerous nerve endings that correspond directly to the most sensitive erogenous zones of the female body: the uterus and the vagina.
Also, the area below the ankle bones directly corresponds to the ovaries, which are responsible for increasing libido and improving sexual satisfaction. The upper part of the soles of the feet corresponds to the chest, and when you stimulate them, they send waves of sexual arousal to your girl’s nipples and breasts.
Since some women are ticklish on their feet, focus on firm and steady strokes as opposed to light, tickly motions; more like a massage. Place her feet on your lap and start massaging the pads of her feet. Then, use your thumbs to rub upward in a circular motion. Repeat these kneading motions slowly down the length of her foot, then move up again all the way to her toes.
According to Emily Morse, a sexologist, ears are highly erotic. Ears are especially sensitive to touch because they contain a massive number of sensory receptors. Start by lightly tracing a C shaped outline of her ear with your fingertips while you are all kissing or gazing into her eyes.
Sex therapists indicate that the earlobe is especially where the magic is: kissing, biting, nibbling, grazing and sucking her earlobe will set off fireworks. Combining these with some other action like clitoral stimulation will intensify her orgasm.
Another way to stimulate the ear is through sound. Do not underestimate the power of a low moan delivered directly into her ear. Why do you think whispering is so sexy?
Sex therapists say that the abdomen is an incredibly erotic area. Firstly, the woman’s abdominal muscles are connected to her vagina. This is the reason why some women have had an orgasm simply from doing core exercises. When you stimulate her abdominal muscles during foreplay, they contract in anticipation of vaginal stimulation, which boosts her arousal.
Again, the stretch of skin between her breasts and the pubic mound is full of nerve endings, and their proximity to her genitals makes the area very sensitive to touch. Light stimulation of the lower abdomen facilitates blood flow to her genitals.
The proximity of the lower abdomen to the vagina and the clitoris makes the thought of moving further south particularly exciting for your woman. Start stroking your fingers slowly up and down her stomach or across her lower abdomen. This will stimulate blood flow to her genitals. Let your strokes get progressively lower and lower closer to her sexual organs and then come back up. This anticipation will build her arousal until she is begging you for more direct stimulation.
The skin on top of the head is loaded with nerves, which sex experts indicate are extremely sensitive to touch. Giving your woman a scalp massage is not only soothing but also sensual. Stimulating your girl’s scalp releases a load of feel-good hormones like oxytocin and serotonin. It also helps to release tension and get her in the mood for sex.
The next time you are having a foreplay session, open your fingers wide and slowly drag them through her hair. Stroke her scalp with your figures as you move along. Start at the base of her head, and then go behind her ears, moving on to the front of her scalp.
According to Michael Krychman, a sex therapist, the Mons (the area above the genitals) is a richly erotic area. Caressing the hair on the pubic mound or a gentle touch to this area is exciting and pleasurable to your girl.
Remember, your woman’s pubic mound is closely connected to her sexual organs and, therefore, stimulating it triggers a strong sexual response. Shannon Chavez, a sex therapist, asserts that stimulating the pubic mound leads to the production of pheromones that triggers an incredible sexual response in your woman.
Over To You
Sex can be monotonous, especially if you do not take time to know your woman’s body. Learning the location of the various erogenous zones is a significant step towards spicing up your love life.
Unfortunately, even your woman may not be a good student of her body, and she, therefore, may not of much help with this one. There is every possibility that she is not aware of most of her erogenous zones.
The key is communicating with your woman as you explore her body. This way, you will transform your sex life into a spicy, steamy affair.
There is nothing more rewarding than knowing how to pleasure your woman thoroughly.