SHE SEEMS HAPPY… but what is going through her mind?
- Why did she break up with me?
- What has made her go so distant all of a sudden?
- Why is she with that guy?
If you’ve ever asked yourself these questions then this (updated) list is going to transform your life.
It contains the best (in my experienced and honest opinion) advice, information and education on women and why they do what they do
Some are new, some are classic books on female psychology. But they all have great ideas, concepts and insights to help you understand the women in your life…
1. For men only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women – Shaunti & Jeff Feldhahn
Think you know what she truly wants and needs from you?
For Men Only unlocks many of the mysteries that tend to keep the average man in the dark. Especially when it comes to building a deeper and more meaningful relationship with women.
You can expert to learn about what women think their insecurities are and what they mean when they use the term ‘security’ (which is very important to them)
From the best-selling author of “For Women Only”, this easy to read the book is full of practical information. With no real scientific language, it’s something any man can read today and feel more in charge of their relationships with women.
Get your copy of For Men Only here.
|Easy to read||Over-simplified writing style|
|Includes a “Quick-Start” guide||Denigrating language towards women|
|Plenty of practical information||Written from Christian POV may not be for everyone|
2. Crack the Secret Girl Code – Michael Fiore
Learn How to Push the Right Buttons
Crack the Girl Code is an online training program that provides men with “code cheats” designed to help get inside the minds of women. It focuses on creating an instant connection while at the same time increasing her sexual desires.
The course covers techniques to help you push three crucial buttons in a woman’s mind to make her feel that special connection and desire you.
Crack the Girl Code covers how to make that connection by making her feel as though you understand her better than anyone else. It also covers conversation tips to turn her on and how to make a woman feel like she is destined to be with you.
Several bonuses are included such as “How to avoid the Friend Zone.” You can find more information on exactly what else is included at the website here. (It gets a bit weird with the puppets)
|Perfect for the beginner||No online forum for more help and information|
|Digital version for online reading||Not for those who “think,” they are always right|
|60- day money back guarantee||Not an “Instant” cure, it takes time for perfection|
3. The Female Brain – Louann Brizendine
Science answers the question “What does a woman want?”
No matter what your current relationship status, this book will help you to gain a better understanding of the complexities of the female brain, in an easy to read and understand format
The Female Brain answers many questions you might have but were afraid to ask. Among those questions are, “Why do women tend to be more verbal than most men?” or “Why do women form stronger bonds with their female friends than guys do with their male friends?”
Find the answers to these questions and many more in between the covers of The Female Brain.”
|Easy to understand, non-scientific language||Contains inaccurate information in places|
|Should read by both women and men||Fails to cover the elderly female brain|
|Concepts backed by medical science||Stereotypes women a little|
4. What Women Want When They Test Men – Bruce Bryans
How to decode a woman’s behavior and pass their “secret” tests
In the book, you will learn about the three “C”s, Congruence, Compliance, and Commitment, which are the three tests most women use.
If you have ever been dumped by a woman, the book can show you how not to accept being treated this way. As well as how to start being treated in a manner of which you are deserving.
Crack the code and get your copy of What Women Want When They Test Men here.
|Follow up to What Women Want in a Man||From a very dominating male point of view|
|Identifies the three “C”s women use to test men||Might be best for short-term relationships|
|Teaches you to be a strong, confident man||Repetitive in places|
5. What Women Want in a Man – Bruce Bryans
Become the Alpha male women desire
In What Women Want in a Man, Bruce Bryan discusses the most important thing a woman wants in a man
And how communication and confidence are important, but not as important as her #1 primal drive.
On the practical side, you will find ten ways you can start working on making the changes needed to make you a “woman magnet.” Learn why the “Nice Guy” always seems to finish last and end up alone rather than with the woman of his dreams.
Most importantly of all, learn how to become an Alpha Male, one that is more assertive and who is far more likely to be attractive to women. Discover what she really wants in What Women Want in a Man here
|Covers the traits most women are attracted to in simple manner||Poorly written using a lot of generalities|
|Not filled with tricks and gimmicks that don’t work||Repetitive information|
|Focuses on the male side of the relationship||A little shallow|
6. Make Her Crave You – Greg Hart
Are you a guy with his life together… well all except one part?
Make Her Crave You is more like a beginners system to help guide you through how to reveal that part of you that women want to see.
In this way, it’s more focused on guys who are successful in other parts of their lives. And just need to sort out their relationship.
You won’t get any scripted lines here. In fact, the book is written on the premise that men simply have a problem demonstrating their worth to women (which I agree is a big problem that guys have). It’s not about changing you, more enhancing.
|No lines or magic tricks||A little dated|
|Focused on attracting the women you want||Some parts are repetitive|
|Bonuses included||A little more expensive than some other options|
7. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus – John Gray Ph.D.
#1 New York Times bestseller
This is the classic book on the subtle differences between women and men. So not only do you get to understand females better, you understand yourself as well
It has been updated, but the information is as good today as when it was first released. It covers how both sexes prefer to interact with each other, as well as how we think differently. And if you’ve ever heard of the ‘points system’ couples use, I believe it started here
There are a lot of analogies and John Gray has a great way of painting pictures in the reader’s mind to help explain topics
Get your copy (if you don’t already own it) of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus here
|Easy and entertaining read||A little oversimplified|
|Chapters focused on language are good||Parts on keeping love alive may not be relevant|
|Examples given||Advice taken from observation rather than research|
8. The Female Brain (Movie) – Whitney Cummings
A movie about why women do what they do
I know this list is about books… However, if you’re looking for a different perspective on learning about female psychology you might like this (even if it’s just for a change)
The Female Brain is loosely about understanding why women make the choices they make
The star (Whitney Cummings) plays a brain researcher who is explaining the different parts of the two brains (male and female) in this way. Then there are examples played out by the couples
It’s light-hearted and good to watch with friends. It’s aimed at more of a chick flick audience but it can be good to go ‘undercover’ and learn from these types of resources occasionally. See it here
|Entertaining and light-hearted||Not a book|
|Informative||‘Chick flick’ might put some guys off|
|A different take on what can be a dry subject||Not as actionable and straightforward advice as others on this list|
9. My Secret Garden – Nancy Friday
Where other books dare to tread
Written in the 1970s, Nancy Friday thought it would be a good idea to start documenting women’s fantasies. So she put an ad in the local classifieds and this book is what came back
My Secret Garden is a great book. And I recommend it, especially if your a guy who puts women up on a pedestal. It gives a real look at women and what drives them from this unique angle (their fantasies and innermost thoughts). It’s a real eye opener
Well worth the read but read it somewhere private. It is very graphic so that may or may not be to some peoples taste
Get your copy of My Secret Garden here
|Entertaining read||Very graphic language|
|Informative||No real ‘how to’ style content, more story based|
|Open and honest||You’ll never look at women the same way again (might be a good thing)|
10. The Language of Lust – Lawrence Lanoff
Does talking about sex with women scare you?
Many guys aren’t sure of how to broach the subject of sex with women.
And although it’s only a small thing, it can leave you feeling like you’re missing out on something…
If this is you then The Language of Lust is a MUST READ.
Inside you will learn how to deal with your emotions as well as what to say and do with techniques you can use.
It will help you understand where she is coming from and how to interact with her around the topic of sex and intimacy (which can be a big sticking point for guys)
It isn’t for beginners or those with little to no experience with women, but if you’re up for the challenge the rewards are there. Get your copy here.
|Lots of practical application techniques here||Not for beginners or guys that haven’t much experience with women|
|Great advice on the correct way to be outwardly sexual with women||A little dated|
|Bonuses included||The membership site is hard to navigate|
The ten resources above are a crash course in what makes women tick, and why they do what they do.
If you were to only read one or two, you would be in the top 99% of men who don’t have a clue about the women in their lives. Many time the information in books on female psychology like these has helped me understand what has happened in my relationships
And that removes a lot of the negative emotion and guesswork that I see many guys still doing. My advice is to buy all of these and save yourself the 5 years of rejection and family visits alone. But that’s just me.
If you have a question about any of the resources above, then contact me here